Millennial Marriages: A Redefined Partnership

By January 23, 2025

Shaped by shifting societal norms, evolving gender roles, and a focus on individuality, millennials are redefining what makes a successful partnership as millennial marriages look vastly different from those of previous generations 

According to newly released data from the US Census Bureau, the median age of adults in Florida getting married for the first time was 30 in 2023, up two years from 2010. Compared to 1950, where the average age was about 22, it should come as no surprise that just like with fashion and music, we are seeing significant generational shifts in marriage trends. 

Divorce, once heavily stigmatized, is now viewed through a lens of prioritizing happiness and compatibility. 

Kluger Kaplan Family Law Partner Ashley Frankel explores millennial marriages, what makes them thrive, and the unique challenges they face in today’s fast-paced world.

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Making Millennial Marriages Thrive 

Millennials prioritize emotional openness and mental health, with therapy and counseling playing a key role in fostering communication and addressing issues early. This transparency strengthens relationships by creating a solid foundation. 

Shared values also play a pivotal role. Millennials are deliberate about aligning on financial priorities, lifestyle goals, and family aspirations. With dual careers often the norm, equality and mutual respect define these partnerships, moving away from traditional roles. 

Individuality is celebrated within millennial marriages, as couples encourage each other’s personal growth, hobbies, and friendships outside the relationship. This balance between independence and connection reinforces strong bonds. 

A New Generation of Marriages 

Millennials approach marriage with flexibility and inclusivity, breaking from tradition in notable ways. Many delay marriage to focus on personal growth, financial stability, and self-discovery, with cohabitation often viewed as a step toward compatibility. Financial transparency, including discussions around prenuptial agreements, is common, reflecting their pragmatic approach. 

This generation also embraces diverse relationship models, supporting same-sex marriages, blended families, and other non-traditional partnerships. Free from rigid timelines, millennials prioritize happiness and compatibility, further reducing the stigma around divorce. 

Facing Marital Challenges 

Despite their strengths, millennial marriages face unique challenges. Delaying marriage for personal growth can sometimes lead to couples evolving in different directions. Balancing change requires consistent communication and adaptability. 

The desire for instant gratification can also test resilience. While prioritizing happiness is vital, successful relationships require effort and the willingness to navigate difficult times. 

Finally, the flexibility millennials value, such as cohabitation and shifting roles, can create uncertainty. Success depends on fostering strong communication and aligning shared goals amid modern life’s ever-changing dynamics. 

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Ashley Frankel  is a partner at South Florida -based litigation firm Kluger, Kaplan, Silverman, Katzen & Levine P.L. representing individuals in all aspects of family law matters. Learn more about Ashley Frankel.